How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 21.06.2025 09:04

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
How come Jesus died on Friday and rose on Sunday? That's not 3 days and three nights.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Making more friends is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Did Trump show us once again that he is a master debater?
That's it for today.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
What symptoms did you notice before being diagnosed with cancer?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
What I need from you?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Ask yourself:
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
What is your worst experience in life?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Why did my ex move on so quickly?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Does not procrastinate.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Procrastinates a lot.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.